Wise decisions

It's so hard to make wise decisions when your heart is involved. It's hard to make decisions when your family are involved. When someone is saying one thing and then someone else is saying another- then to finish it off your heart is saying another. So many viewpoints to consider so many past selves of mine to think about. What I said I wanted, what I said I wouldn't do. So many decisions, why does life get so complicated. Why do people complicate things?